Rory Vaden in Huffington Post: The High Cost of Always Being ‘Right’

After years of coaching successful professionals in a variety of disciplines, I’ve come to see that when conflicts arise, many of us tend to care more about being “right” than we do about finding the best course of action.

I’m sure you’ve experienced this in your own life, at the office and perhaps at home too. A disagreement arises, and we’re so afraid of “losing” that we won’t even admit there’s a possibility that there might be more to the situation than we can see. In our determination to “win,” we refuse to acknowledge the other person’s perspective.

As is often the case when we let ourselves be guided solely by our emotions, there are substantial consequences. Here are the three biggest ones. . .

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